A few years ago I started noticing how the first two rows of every lecture, conference, or presentation are usually empty.
Whatever the reason, it's clear that sitting in the front row gets people nervous. There are many reasons why people avoid sitting in the front rows, but I think the most popular one is: "What will other people think of me?"
I know from my own personal experience as a speaker that it could be slightly bothersome talking to two empty front rows. But I try to remind myself that it's just hard for people to sit in the "splash zone."
So in an attempt to empathize (and honestly, to overcome my own insecurities) for the last year I have been making a conscious effort to sit in the empty front row at every event I attend. Even when I come late. Even when I have to leave early. Even when I know there is a possibility that I may zone out.
I know it sounds silly, but this experience has actually changed my life. I am finding myself speaking up more, taking initiative more, but most importantly I have stopped worrying about what others think of me, and I think that has made me a better leader.
Every year, we teach our incoming JGO student leadership that Judaism defines a leader not as someone with power, or even someone elected or appointed to a position, but simply someone who steps up to take responsibility when no one else is.
The Jewish Grad Organization was created when a few people realized that there was no Jewish nonprofit out there solely dedicated to grad students, and those people stepped up to take responsibility to make sure there would be.
Thirteen years later, as antisemitism rears its ugly head, our students, our staff, and our supporters are stepping up to fight hatred and promote Jewish pride on campus. No one elected them, they have no power but willpower, but they are not afraid to sit in the front row. They are true Jewish leaders and we are so proud of them!
There's a lot of room with us up here in the front row, and the view is great. Come join us and let's change the world!
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